Why??

I just got word that my cousin's four month old son died in his sleep. I try to imagine what their feeling and I absolutely cannot even fathom a fraction of their pain. It's impossible to know what they are going through without ever having been there, and I pray I never have to go there. I try to imagine something I could say or do that would help, and I've come to the conclusion there is nothing. Nothing will help. When my dad died nothing anyone said helped, and I imagine it's the same for them. So I'll just be there for them and if they need anything they know I'm here, I'm here to listen and be supportive and to cry with them, but so far that's all I have, I just don't want to cause extra pain. (If that's even possible.) Please keep them in your prayers.